Sleep all...sleep all day!!!

Nicky just told me that we're so f*cked up with love and that maybe we're not just supposed to find love till we're 60...The girl is not over with his man...

For the sake of the Valentine fiasco, let me share with you the ABCs of Celebrating love. This doesn't necessarily apply to me. So don't dare ask what got me in the mood of posting this gucci handbags. Somebody forwarded this to my email, and I guess I'm just supposed to share this with all other wishful thinkers. =) For future use!!! Ha!

Here it is...


The ABC's of Celebrating Love!


To be a special Valentine to your partner takes lots of energy, time,
attention and Love. Let's all give some thought about who we are being
in our relationship, what we can do to make them better and who we will
have to become to have them be healthy and successful. Let's make
EVERYDAY Valentine's Day for our partner.


Let's begin with the premise that relationships are something that must
be worked on all the time, not only when they are broken and need to be
fixed!


Here are a few ideas to get you started!


A
Absolutely amaze your partner with adoration. Let them know in very
special ways that you care. Exercise extravagant respect and devotion
toward your lover. Accept them for who they are. Demonstrate your warm
attachment and affection to them. Avoid taking your partner for granted.

B
Believe in your instincts. Be spontaneous. Don't plan. . . just do
something that you've wanted to do with your partner for a long time.
Let your love occur naturally. Stop and pick a roadside flower and
present it to your partner.

C
Cuddle. Lie close and be cozy. Do spoons! Just hold each other. There is
a very special healing power in a close, warm embrace. C is also for
"considerate."

D
Discover new ways of expressing your love for each other. Hire a
skywriter. Put a message up on a billboard. Buy a radio commercial to
say I love you. Record a special message on a cassette.

E
Entice your lover to try a new way of making love. Always making love
the same way can bring on boredom. Focus on pleasure. Enjoy each other
to the fullest. Read, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.

F
Flirt for fun and frivolity. Be creative in your flirting. Pretend you
are together for the first time or that you are trying to pick up your
lover.

G
Gaze into each other's eyes with a steady intention to say, "I love you"
without words. Smile. Notice the eye color. Say something nice about
them. Be generous with your love.

H
Have a private party for just the two of you. Candles, music, the works.
Talk. Listen. Express your love for one another.

I
Indulge each other's desires. Write your secret desires on pieces of
paper and trade. You may be surprised.

J
Joke and have fun together. Lighten up. Be joyous. Release your sense of
humor. Have fun with love.

K
Kissy. . . kissy. . . kissy! Quick pecks on the cheek don't work. Give
your partner an unexpected, looooooong, juicy kiss. Be keen on kissing!

L
Love with all your heart and soul. Always remember to speak, "I love
you" at least once each day. Express love in new and exciting ways.
Remember to love yourself and do nice things for you too.

M
Massage away the day's tension and stress. Begin with the feet and work
up. Surprise your lover with your magic fingers or tantalizing tongue.
Buy some special massage oil; something that smells good.

N
Nurture your need for nibbling. Nibble each other's earlobes or other
parts of the body that feels good. Practice a soft, light, romantic
nibble with your lover. Nibbling feels good.

O
Offer breakfast in bed or some other surprise your lover might like. Be
creative. Plan. Make it very special.

P
Pretend you are long-lost, passionate lovers. Use your imagination.
Think! What could you do that you haven't done for a long time? Do that.

Q
Quote your lover a love poem or a special passage from a book or
greeting card that expresses exactly how you feel.

R
Remember the little things. Respect your partner by paying attention. Be
aware when your partner's likes and dislikes. Notice what makes them
happy and deliver more of that.

S
Slow dance by candlelight or in the backyard in the moonlight. Get back
to romance. Be sensitive to the romantic needs of your lover.
Romantically impaired? Read, 1001 Ways to Be Romantic.

T
Try a little tenderness. Be gentle. Practice the "soft touch." Go slow.
Be intentional.

U
Uncover your deepest feelings. Speak them or write them to your lover.
Communicate them unwaveringly. Let your emotions express themselves with
sensitivity, understanding and love.

V
Vow your eternal love for each other. Renew your vows. Make some new
ones. Look up the word "vow" in the dictionary. Live by your solemn
promises.

W
Watch a sunrise or sunset together. Bring a picnic basket with snacks
and your favorite beverage. Let the warmth you feel for your partner be
felt.

X
X-plore your romantic dreams. Daydream about this one. Think.
X-cellerate. Don't wait. Do something X-citing together; something you
said you would do in the past, but you both have been putting off or
making X-cuses about.

Y
Yearn for each other's touch. Don't hold back. A hug-a-day pays
dividends beyond your wildest imaginings. AND. . . it feels good to be
touched by the one you love.

Z
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz in each other's arms. Zero in on being close. Touching
feels good. Enhance your enjoyment by listening to your partner's
breathing cycle and to their heartbeat. Inhale and exhale together.
Become as one.

Now I can say my A-B-C's!